Finally, Another waitress comes over who seems to know the people across from us, they chat for a minute. When they're done talking, the people at that table said that we were trying to ask for something. She gives us our menus immedietly, along with our tea, takes our order about 2 minutes after we've gotten our menus, and bring us miso soup within another minute. She jokes around and is really nice, and the food comes really quickly (considering how full the place is). We ended up leaving a $5 tip on a $10 meal-in cash, so that it won't be credited to the other lady if we're in her area (I don't know how these things work).
I was so glad the second lady came along, the first lady was really a bitch. I don't consider being curtly told by a waitress who won't even look at me that she's too busy to give me a freaking menu. Every other time we've been in there, she's always there looking hostile. I don't know if it's just our appearance since it's always my boyfriend and me who are ratty looking college students, or if she's this rude to everyone, but I just find it unacceptable.