I'm pregnant with my third child and I go to a local clinic for my prenatal visits instead of a dedicated doctor because I love the office staff, nurses, and every doctor but one. That's where I take my son and daughter for their checkups, and it's the first time I've found doctors I trust after a history of apathetic or incompetent physicians. But now I'm really considering not going there anymore. The problem is one doctor because for my last three visits I've been seen by her and I never want to again.
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I have an appointment Wednesday and I plan on going in early to file a complaint and see if there is anyway they can make sure I don't see that doctor again. If not, I'll just have to go somewhere else. I can't take her judgmental shit anymore. Am I just being whiny? I don't feel like I am but I don't want to complain about her and have them brush me off.. I don't know. The rest of the staff is so awesome, if I hadn't gotten her for 3 appointments in a row I probably wouldn't care that much but I can't take it anymore. Every other doctor makes me feel great when I'm there, asks me how I'm doing and explains what's going on with my baby and reminds me what to expect and treats me great. When I leave after an appointment with her I'm angry, irritated, and feel like shit.
EDIT: dude, you guys are all such sweethearts. I am DEFINITELY going to complain on Wednesday and make sure they schedule me on a day she isn't in, or leave. I really appreciate all the kind sentiments, you guys are great.
EDIT 2: I didn't see her for my appointment Wednesday but I filed a complaint and talked to a nurse for a little while filling out the form. When she said that shit, what she said. She agreed that it was all completely uncool, especially forgetting to give me UTI meds or even mentioning I had one. From now on I'm scheduled for a different day of the week when she will not be there, and if she's filling in for someone, it's in my notes to change my appointment rather than see her. Hurray!