Annyyyway. We were talking, etc., I was sitting across the table from any of the girls but Whitney and I were holding hands briefly and he comes over and starts bitching me out again, saying that I'm rude to the server, he's talked to me about my behavior before and that my friends are welcome to stay but I can't and that I'm not welcome back.
What's interesting is that I go in off and on and the only time there's ever a problem is when this one manager is there. I'm the same always, and yes, I get loud sometimes but, frankly, it's 4 AM in the middle of bar rush. There are drunken people and other people making out and he never says a damn thing to them.
He also claimed that he's had serves complaining that I don't tip. Not that my friends don't, but that *I* don't. Of all the things he could make up as a basis for kicking me out, the fact that I don't tip and am supposedly rude to the server isn't a basis for kicking me out. I've been in the restaurant industry for literally almost a decade and I've never, ever, EVER had the luxury of not waiting on people because they were rude to me or didn't tip. In the real world, we have to suck it up and bitch about it later. Also that's a ridiculous claim because the servers who know who we are argue over who gets to take us because they know that it's a sure 20 to 50 bucks.
And I don't even really think it's this guys fault. I think there are complaints. And it's from the security guard who doubles as their host at 3 AM on the weekends. She hates me. And she's the only one in ear shot, the only one who is around, and the complaints always come when she's there. There have been nights when neither one of them are there and nothing happens. In fact, the other managers wave at me when I'm with Rita and wave at our group when we're there. But if this chick is there, all of a sudden all kinds of people are complaining. No.
Apparently this has been going on for awhile and I'm not the only one.